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Especially For Small Children
A small child’s world revolves around their parents, daily routines
and a few special toys. They will have trouble understanding what
is moving and what is staying. A child might panic that their toys
are staying and, at the same time, expect their best friend to be
coming with them. During this transition, they will also worry about
being left behind. These fears will probably increase if they see
their toys being boxed or their bed dismantled. It is a good idea to
pack their room last, and have your child spend time with a
favourite relative on moving day.
Basically, small children need to feel protected and secure. Make
sure you respond immediately to any little concern, A young child
has a tendency to make-up answers in their minds to whatever isn’t
clearly explained to them. Emphasize that all the family (and pets)
will be living together in your new home. Because of their short
memory span, you will need to repeat this often.
Especially For Elementary-Aged Children
At this age, moving can be quite exciting. There will be new
discoveries to be made, people to meet, and areas to explore.
Friendships haven’t had a long time to develop and, therefore, are
more easily severed then with older children.
These children will be keen on understanding how their everyday
routines might change. Are they going to fit in? Who will their new
friends be? Will they like their teacher and school? If your child is
currently involved in artistic or sport activities, make sure they
understand that they can continue with these in the new
community.
Especially For Teenagers
Moving will greatly affect your teenager. They might have a part-
time job. They have deep friendships. They could be on athletic
teams. They attend all sort of social activities.
Avoid generalizing with your teen. They will rebel against