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he wrote that he wanted them to know he would
soon be the author of a book. Keaton considers the
couple to be his friends. He had the husband for
science and the wife was his psychologist in high
school. Evidently the couple feels the same way about
Keaton. The former teacher shared with us that the
world would be a different place if others “had the
heart” that Keaton has.
We have in our antique kitchen cabinet, several copies
of lists that Keaton has printed on the computer.
There is a list of people he wants to invite to our
60
th
wedding anniversary celebration. This party is
still fifteen months away. There is still plenty of time
to make final arrangements for the reception! The
revisions are numerous; he adds and subtracts names
to the list as he deems appropriate. At times the list is
so long that we have to adjust our minds to consider
the church fellowship hall, rather than our newest
restaurant and conference center. Keaton’s attention
to details and his need to have facts accurate and
settled in his mind is one of his traits of autism. This
is evident in several of the accounts of his actions.
In addition to a list of names and telephone numbers
of persons Keaton feels I should have on my bulletin
board, I have a list of people to whom Carl and I
should send one of our picture family Christmas
cards. Our immediate family now has sixteen people
and counting. Maybe that should be waiting; we
have no great grandchildren as yet. His number of
recipients of our cards continues to grow. Keaton
enjoys having friends and acquaintances he can list
and number. He wants the same thing for us.




