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Premenstrual Disorders
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had been left home with her five younger siblings while her par-
ents went to a party. Kendra was not happy because she had wanted
to attend a party at her best friend’s house. One of her brothers
was fooling around with the TV remote when suddenly there was
no picture; none of the children could produce one, even though
they tried continuously for about an hour. Kendra could feel herself
get angrier and angrier. Finally, she grabbed her brother’s arm and
began to twist it behind his back. Then she hit him over and over,
screaming, “Why can’t you leave anything alone?”
The other children watched with their eyes wide. When she was
done, Kendra sent them all to their rooms. She sank down on the
floor with her legs tucked under her arms and cried. Her parents
came home late and did not discover the television problem until
the next day. No one mentioned Kendra’s fit.
As time went on, Kendra had various “fits of anger” and began to
engage in destructive behavior, almost always during the days right
before her menstrual period. Once she stole a motorcycle and sped
through a huge empty lot; she remembers thinking, All I want to do
is drive all this meanness right out of me. Can’t I ever feel good about
myself? She drank, started using recreational drugs, and was failing
most of her classes—even though she had scored high enough on
her SATs to gain a scholarship to a good college.
When she got caught drinking on her college campus, Kendra
finally had to look at the issues causing her behavior. She was very
fortunate to have been assigned a counselor who knew and cared
about women’s issues. Her counselor asked questions about Ken-
dra’s past, about her eating habits, about her menstrual periods,
about relationships, and how Kendra felt about herself. It didn’t take
the counselor long to help Kendra see the influence her menstrual
cycle had on her moods and her decision-making process. The coun-
selor worked with the physician at the school, and Kendra began
taking a low dose of an antidepressant.
When she first learned about the PMS and the use of antidepres-
sants to help control the symptoms, Kendra told her counselor, “Just
give me the pills and I’ll be okay. I don’t need to talk about all this




