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A

BACHELOR'S

CUPBOARD

Bachelor

Etiquette

versed

in

savoir

faire,

only

a

few

general

rules

and

a

few

miscellaneous

hints

will

be

given

here

as to

the

etiquette

of

bachelor

entertainments.

The

American

man,

because

of

the

exac-

CALLS

^i^^g

business,

Is

permitted

to

pay

calls

in

the

evening

and

on

Sunday

afternoons.

In

the

large

cities

he

may

present

himself

with

propriety

as

late

as

nine

in

the

evening;

in

the

country,

half-after

eight

is

the

limit

generally

set,

while

one

seldom

arrives

earlier

than

half-after

seven.

Sunday

after-

noon

calls

may

not

be

made

earlier

than

three

o'clock.

In

the

country,

morning

calls

are

often

made,

and

a

man

may

always,

of

course,

call

on

a

lady's

day

at

home,

if

he

can

arrange

to

do

so.

A

dinner

call

is

a

matter

of

paramount

Importance,

and

a

man

must

also

pay

a

"

duty

call

"

after

receiving

any

hospitality,

within

a

fortnight

of

the

invitation,

whether

the

Invi-

tation

is

accepted

or

not.

He

must

also

call

upon

the

bride

whose

cards

he

has

received,

directly

after

she

returns

from

the

honeymoon.

A

man who

has

served

as

pall

bearer

at

a

funeral

should

call

upon

the

be-

reaved

family

within

three

weeks,

though

this call

rarely

means

more

than

the

leaving

of

a card

with

a

kindly

Inquiry.

After

a

man

has

paid

a

duty

call,

he

should

not

call

again,

unless

requested

to

do

so,

or

unless

his

hostess

extends

further

hospitality

to

him.

A

man

may

not

take

another

man

friend

to

call

upon

a lady

unless

he

has

first

received

her

permission

to

do

so.

A

man

who

wishes

to

make

the

acquaintance

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